Spice-Up Your Bridesmaid’s Luncheon

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The bridesmaids' luncheon is a delightful tradition. You, the bride, get to express to your bridal attendants how much you care about them and thank them for all their help and support throughout the wedding planning process. So, show your gratitude for their hard work with some dedicated "girl-time".

Your bridesmaids' luncheon should be an enjoyable and relaxing experience for you and your attendants. The bridesmaid luncheon doesn't mean you have to have lunch either - here are a few creative ideas for this special event...

1. A dinner party. If you plan a highly formal wedding, a party for your attendants in a similar vein will set the tone early. Everyone can have fun dressing up for the occasion. You can cook, get gourmet take-out or have it catered.
2. Cruise on a river or lake. If you live near water, use it! Nothing is more relaxing than the feel of a boat rocking beneath you (unless you are prone to seasickness, in which case you should choose another option). Many bodies of water offer ferries that cruise down the river, serve a delicious meal, and even have themed entertainment.
3. Dinner at a restaurant. Pick your favorite Italian or Chinese restaurant for a relaxing dinner with great conversation. You could also try a dinner theater - dinner and your evening's entertainment - all in one stop!
4. Afternoon tea. At a tea shop, a fancy hotel dining room, or even at your house, this is a lovely and relaxing way to thank your bridesmaids. To keep the wedding theme, you could serve cookies in the shape of tiered wedding cakes, delicately frosted in pastels.
5. Stress-busting spa day. This recent trend delighting bridesmaids and brides alike is the ultimate in multi-tasking. You finally get to pamper yourself the way you've intended with beauty treatments and relaxation to prepare for the big day and you can give the same gift to your attendants. Spas offer a variety of services so you can arrange your own schedule from everything from hair and beauty treatments to therapeutic massage and relaxation techniques. This can make for a wonderful girls' day.
6. Hometown buffet. If you prefer something relaxed and informal, invite everyone to your house for a "snack party". You can make (or buy) some delicious appetizers, snacks and finger-foods and have the party in the comfort of your living room. (Oh, and don't forget dessert!)
7. Slumber party. Who knows? The cozy atmosphere of your living room may develop into an impromptu sleepover complete with games, wedding movies, and lots of chatting.

Many bridesmaids now come from different parts of the country or only have spoken with each other on the phone. You can use this opportunity to get them better acquainted before the big day. Have everyone share their best wedding disaster stories to break the ice (if you can handle it). But be sure you have some crazy fun too!